The death of a Kentucky bourbon heir has triggered a wild legal spat between the 94-year-old's much younger wife and his grown children – with allegations of abuse, fraud and even incest threatening to darken the iconic dynasty, the Daily Mail can reveal.

Grief-stricken loved ones of Taylor Hay - a descendent of the 'founding father of modern bourbon' – have come to blows as they battle it out over a 145-acre storied estate in Frankfort in the wake of his death in February 2025, court documents show.

What should have been a period of mourning has now been overshadowed by the nasty mudslinging claims leveled in a slew of legal filings, including allegations that Hay – a father of eight - victimized and abused two of his daughters.

The nonagenarian's 61-year-old widow, Joanna Hay, who is the trustee to her late husband's estate, has also been accused by the kids of trying to gain a bigger slice of the inheritance pie, according to court papers.

Joanna, for her part, is suing three of her adult stepchildren - Douglas, Ambie and Robert Hay – for allegedly orchestrating a 'scheme' to block her management of Hay's trust, which she claims entitles her to a multi-million-dollar inheritance.

At the crux of the bitter dispute is the sprawling Scotland Farm, which is home to a Grecian-style mansion perched on a quiet, tree-lined knoll in Frankfort, that has long stood as a monument to one of America's most iconic bourbon dynasties.

Hay's great-great grandfather, Colonel Edmund Taylor Jr, has long been hailed as the founding father of the modern bourbon industry. He built or owned scores of distilleries in his lifetime, including what is known today as Buffalo Trace – an award-winning bourbon whiskey brand.

Taylor Hay, who spent his own career in real estate, building and land development, created the trust back in 2006 to manage his stake in Scotland Farm, which he owned with his brother, John, and niece, Lynne McAleve.

Upon his death last February, his third wife Joanna inherited control of that trust, with the 145-acre estate later transferred as its only asset.

But his widow has since claimed in a civil complaint filed in Frankfort Circuit Court that three of her stepchildren quickly orchestrated a 'scheme' to interfere with her running of the trust after they learned she stood to pocket a whopping $2.5million in inheritance left to her. His children deny the allegations. 

Joanna, a documentary filmmaker, insists she is entitled to the windfall or half the value of her late husband's estate, whichever is higher, per the rules of the trust and his 2015 will. 

According to her, the remainder of Hay's estate would then be split equally among his eight children from all three of his marriages after any debts or expenses are paid.

She claims, though, that the trio began 'harassing, intimidating, and bullying' her in the wake of his death in an apparent bid to get her to relinquish her trustee role or a sizeable slice of her payout, according to the complaint filed by her attorney Marshall Hixson.

Their alleged 'scheme' saw the children send their stepmother more than a hundred emails over a four-month period featuring lurid and false allegations including that the widow 'intentionally caused her husband's death' by allegedly denying him medications in his final days.

They also allegedly threatened to file 'frivolous and baseless' criminal charges against her and 'publicly distribute awful accusations' about her late husband, the court filing states.

She singled out Douglas Hay, accusing him of acting like a 'school yard bully' in his 'crusade to usurp his father's estate plan' by trying to force her out as trustee. Hay has denied the accusations. 

Douglas, though, has hit back against his stepmother, insisting the widow's plans for the trust are not in line with his father's wishes.

In his own legal filings, he accused his stepmother of pursuing the civil lawsuit in a bid to silence the children and essentially bury sexual abuse allegations against Hay.

He claimed Joanna had known for decades how Hay had allegedly 'sexually abused' at least two of his daughters - and that she was now choosing to 'use the Trust funds to prosecute civil litigation against those same victims,' court papers state.

In an interview with the Daily Mail, one of those daughters, Ambie, confirmed the alleged abuse, claiming her father had 'groped' her multiple times in the family home when she was just 10 or 11 years old.

She claimed he also allegedly abused her when he would visit her at college, including one time where her dad is said to have climbed into her bed and groped her breasts. 

'I was confused and shocked, and back in the '70s, I knew it was wrong, but I had no clue,' she told the Daily Mail. 

Ambie said when she challenged her dad on the abuse years later, she claims he allegedly said, "I am so sorry for anything I've done to hurt you."

'When I asked him why he did these things, he said, "I don't know,"' she added.  

In a bombshell email to his siblings in June that has been included in the trail of court documents, Douglas described Ambie as a 'victim' and noted she had recently undergone life-saving bowel surgery due to the 'catastrophic stress' of being sued 'using a dead man's estate, by the lawyers of the man who abused you.' 

'This Trust, your inheritance, was being spent on attorney fees while your sister was in a hospital bed fighting for her life,' his letter to his siblings stated.

'No one called a halt. No one asked whether this was the right thing to do. The billing continued.

'There is no version of good conduct that begins with suing two abuse survivors on a dead man's behalf with meritless claims,' the email in the court filing states. 

He also alleged another one of his sisters was a 'survivor of incest' by their late father, which he claims his dad later admitted.  

Both Douglas and Ambie confirmed to the Daily Mail that they never went to authorities with the allegations about their father.  

Separately, Douglas claimed in his legal filings that his father had told him back in 2015 that he wanted his widow and children to get a 50/50 split of his estate, which he expected to be worth more than $5million.

Douglas, who is the founder of a Las Vegas based supplements firm, denied harassment or interfering with Joanna's administration of the family trust, arguing his interventions were 'good faith attempts' to protect his and his sibling's inheritance against alleged 'financial manipulation by the Trustee'.

He alleged in his legal filings that after his father's death, Joanna obtained a 'fraudulent' $8.6million appraisal of Scotland Farm with a valuation he said was 'artificially deflated' to half its market value.

Douglas, who is representing himself, alleged in court papers that Joanna had marketed the estate at 'a price structured to eliminate or drastically reduce the beneficiaries' share while maximizing the Trustee's own financial recovery'.

But in her own legal filings, Joanna said any claims she conspired to falsify the appraisal to the detriment of her stepchildren are 'untrue' and 'utterly baseless.' 

In court papers, he called her harassment claims 'an abuse of legal process and an attempt to weaponize civil litigation to silence' an heir from asking questions about her management of the trust.

Ambie, too, denied harassing Joanna or interfering with her management of her late father's trust.

She told the Daily Mail that her father told her 'over and over' that his wishes were to put Scotland Farm and a $400,000 Frankfort townhouse he lived in with Joanna into a trust to ensure his family were looked after.

Ambie claimed she ultimately forgave her father for the alleged abuse when he signaled he 'wanted to make things right with the children that he hurt and abused' by amending the trust for his estate. 

She insisted her dad did not want Scotland Farm sold but kept as a 'family legacy' to be passed down through the generations.

'He wanted Joanna to have something, but he wanted it to be fair, and he wanted his children to have something as well,' Ambie said. 

Robert Hay, the other sibling named in Joanna's suit, has since sought to distance himself from the legal fight by renouncing his claim to the trust. His lawyer declined to comment when contacted by the Daily Mail.

Joanna's lawsuit is seeking a declaratory judgment from the court that validates her late husband's trust and will and that she is the properly appointed trustee.

She is also seeking a restraining order against the three stepchildren from harassing her or interfering with her running of the trust.

She also wants them to pay punitive damages and the cost of her attorney’s fees. 

The Daily Mail reached out to Joanna Hay's lawyer for comment.